We can’t run after Love hoping to catch it. Love will connect with us, if we have an open heart, open mind with Love in ourselves.
In real love there is no strong Ego. There is an understanding a sharing.
When we can Love without conditions — we are free.
When Love is deep and pure, it can’t be bought or sold. The loyalty is solid and so is the dignity and values. No games — no manipulation to be played.
Unconditional love demands first of all an open mind willing to understand the other person — an open heart filled with love.
It is not about agreeing, it is to give each other space.
Each of us come from different backgrounds, different previous lives that has shaped and programmed us and still do today.
But if we can respect and give each other the space, the love can flourish in understanding of each other.
We all get caught up in Social Media and TV programs that easily create different interpretations of what we experience, so one wrong word can make a separateness between two people and might close the day with no understanding no solution.
Simple innocent words often of no importance got written in the sand. The ocean took them in the waves. But they were never solved by an understanding, so next episode arrives and now it gets chiseled in stones one word takes the next and it becomes too much to deal with and the Love fades away.
There was no real Love from the beginning, because unconditional Love can never turn into hatred.
True Love forgives, unless there are evil forces involved, but they are rare. There can be manipulating dark energies involved. Those have to be faced and work out and hopefully turned into Light.
Unconditional Love takes you into something beautiful it takes your heart into warm feelings. To keep it takes work — you have to face yourself in certain situations that demands to purify and clean up what is called the four lower bodies where jalousie, fear, power, greed is sitting.
Are we so much better than the other person?
The Society is telling we deserve — do we?
Have we made this world a better place that we can say we deserve?
Sitting Bull did all he could to protect and serve his people. Took them through battle after battle, but as we know White Man was too greedy and wanted all the land, even though they often had no real use for it.
Beaten by the White people he ended to work with Buffalo Bill. Traveling with him he encountered the White World and was surprised to see so many white people living in poverty. He went and shared with them his earned money.
That is unconditional love to help others by giving of yourself without expecting anything in return.
Next chapter will be about divorce.